> 11.05pm, guy and gal were chatting happily, when guy uncontrollably
> yawns
>
> bad example
> ============
> gal (sounding out): you feeling sleeping??
> guy: yeah, tired from work...
> gal (sounds concern): ok, shan't disturb u, go and sleep lah
> guy: ok, you have an early nite too..
> guy hangs up the phone.
> 5 min later, phone rings
> awaken by the phone rings, guy: hello?
> gal: .............
> guy: who's this?
> gal (feeling unjust): you felt very bothered by me is it?
> guy (confused): huh? what?
> gal: .............
> guy: why? what happened?
> gal: you find me very bothersome is it?
> guy: bothersome? why you said this??
> gal: ..............
> guy: what's the matter? how i would know if you dun say it out?
> gal: we are chatting halfway, and you yawn, and went off to sleep...
> guy: b...but, you are the one who ask me to go to sleep...
> gal: you already said want to sleep already, what else u want me to
say?
>
> guy: haiz... if you wanna chat, just say so... what for tell me to go
> sleep, and feeling unhappy in the end?
> gal: since when i'm unhappy?
> guy: isn't this unhappy? ok ok, i won't sleep the next time, will
that
> do?
> gal: what's the point? i want you to chat with me willingly, and not
> because afraid that i will be unhappy...
>
> in the end, guy spend another ?comforting gal, actual sleep time is
> 11.40pm, plus the earlier argument, he did not have a good sleep.
what
> worse is the gal may argue with the same thing again the next day.
>
> good example
> ============
> gal (sounding out): you feeling sleepy?
> guy (tired vocal, but sound interested) : abit, tired from work. but
you
> have not finished talking, carry on, i will be listening.
> gal (felt consoled): orh, but since you are tired, go and sleep then
> (still sounding out)
> never fall into the trap and hang up the phone
> guy: there's no afternoon break today, indeed more tiring. how abt i
> give u a call tomorrow morning. let's chat awhile more ok? (tells the
> reason, and offer make up measure)
> gal: oh ok. go and sleep now, you must be tired.
> gal is willing to let guy go sleep, but guy must do a bit more than
this
>
> guy: so what time you are going to sleep?
> gal: not sure, probably a bit later.
> guy: ok, but not too late, not good for health. i will be heart pain
one
> hor...
> gal (feeling loved): ok lah...
> guy: i love you the most! (even if eyes are shutting also must
remember
> to say this impt words, else all effort wasted)
> gal: i loved you too, have a good rest! (happy till can float liao)
> guy: ehmm...
> gal hang up the phone
>
> in the end, 11.10pm. guy sleep peacefully, and probably a morning
call
> from gal the next day...
>
> conclusion 1:
> female wants feeling and care. most of the time, female's logic
cannot
> be figure out with a reasoning mind.
>
> conclusion 2:
> say a few more touching words, concerning lines, will save you more
> than ¨öhr of precious time
>
> conclusion 3:
> when encounter the above situation, must always let the gal hang up
> the phone first. else it will be disastrous...
>
> conclusion 4:
> if your gf isn't like the one in the example, then congrats to u!
> treasure her!
> but if otherwise, dun accuse her of being unreasonable. what she
wants
> is very simple.